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Author: MYTH.Graphy

06 25th, 2009

Mood: sleepy

Craving: a good deep sleep

This is not at all my week; don’t know what is going around me… it’s all negativity attraction toward me.

The situations mentioned in my previous post, a car accident – el7amdlillah it’s a minor one, and I was really lucky that it happened a week before my car insurance was expired. I lost the keys of my other SUV car

and I had to order another spare key.

All the above along with other disappointments on a personal level, I can’t wait to run away from all this, when? Where? How? I don’t know.

Summer looks like going very very slow, boring and dreadful. No travel arrangements

all due to a long-list of relatives’ weddings. I can’t cope with the humidity in Abu Dhabi, though it’s been two years since I moved to AD…

No photography business in the horizon either, and the weather is not at all suitable to go for adventures.

Friends travelling, family busy, career unstable at the mean time…

Even shopping is not that appealing to me now!!! Imagine I don’t have shopping spree going through my skin anymore; it’s been months since I last bought something for myself…

Ooooooh GOD save me from shooting myself… OMG I’ve never been in such a negative mood,, it’s not at all me yet I thought I need to let it all out…

I’ll be going to Muscat tomorrow to attend a cousin’s wedding, hoping that it helps a little in fixing my mood…

I thought of it, and I did it… thought of reassambling my wardrope.. So I DID

and yes that’s my tools box

My sadness gateway.. The yummiest burger sandwich @ EP

I soooooo feeeel like this style now

and I love it ssooooooo much too!

P.S.

I’ve been having various problems with my BlackBerry, isn’t just me? or does everyone else have a problem with theirs!!

anyway I’ll be getting a new one today *HORAAAAY*

See you when I see you my dear friends =)

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.. Attitudes & Rudeness ..

Author: MYTH.Graphy

06 20th, 2009

Mood: Orange-ish

Craving: relaxation

I’ve delayed my post for quite some time now,, I intended to upload this topic a week ago but thought I am better of distraction now!

Attitudes & Rudeness:

This is a post that exploded from various situations over the years!!

Who is she? OR Who is he?

Questions that popped up in my mind in various situations in which I ended up asking myself WHO are those people and/or WHAT are those people?

It’s not a stupid question and I did not refer it to people who are totally strangers, or people who are new in my culture and content… I referred it to people from within the same culture that I grew up in… People I thought I know very well and they share certain similarities with me… People who’ve been around me for some time and I just thought I could possibly understand them…

It was until some of them started acting weirdly, creepy and unexplainably absurd… Shockingly I realized I don’t know who am I dealing with :S

I could go on vaguely about this topic, but it’s unfair for you my friends,, and unfair for me to forget these incidents…

Situation 1:

Am well known for my sense of humor and my abilities to prank my friends very easily,, it’s all for fun!! We understand each other and I could easily break a tension or change the mood of a person by a funny prank…

Couple of pranks with my new colleagues,,, created a good bond between me and them…

However; one day it reaches my ears that there are rumors spreading around the workplace and for my surprise people suspected I fired those horrible news :S and I got the blame for something I didn’t do…

Situation 2:

A girl in the same workplace has a fight with another colleague,

Suddenly out of nowhere.. I receive MSGs from the Girl accusing me that I fired rumors about her being the GF of that colleague she had a fight with…

Adding to my surprise: she literally said: “I know so many things about you, but am keeping my mouth shut”

Her attitude from the beginning was not striking, I know the girls’ style … yet the last sentence completely flagged the fight alert in my mind… the girl just threatened me :S

It ended up as a big misunderstanding that it took the girl a whole day to figure it out.. she sent another MSG apologizing for what she said,, but to be honest my shock is all about setting boundaries between me and her.. and still confront her about the threat…

Analysis:

These two situations are just small dots in a novel-length of situations that I came across and am sure you all went though others..

I agree and understand that misunderstandings between people are very normal and common to happen… however; it’s not about the misunderstanding,,, its about how you express yourself as well how the other person acts toward these confusions…

It’s a person’s set of values, habits and conversation style that define ONESELF… if in such difficult situations a person was not able to adhere to any of the norms known by the majority of people… no wonder we can’t all read from the same page,,,!!! No wonder we jump into conclusions before looking into the facts.. No wonder we judge others based on wrong assumptions…

I might be speaking non-sense so far,,, but how am I suppose to act normally as I usually do if I wasn’t able to understand people around me… how am I supposed to trust people if they just judged me without even bothering to know me in the first place?

How could I possibly deal with people if their attitudes, behaviours and values completely showed how different they are from me,,,,

Yes it might be ONE situation,, but one situation could be enough to tell you a lot about the others… these situations set the boundries between people,, they could break a relationship and/or build another…

Yet, am sure everybody will expect me to act normally as long as there was an apology involved..

Could I possibly forgive? May be

Could I possibly be the same again? I don’t think so

Will I ever be able to understand every single person in my life? very difficult to answer,,

at the end:

"Life is so short to waste caring to understand people, It’s more important to focus on those close friends because they will be the ones who will be next to you at the end"

P.S.

a bird told me: that there are people who are reading my blog regularly, they might have not left a comment before.. but they are speaking good about me and have said good compliments about me.. so to everyone out there who spoke very honesly good about me,,

I tremendously Thank You All,, for your sweet words made my days beyond imagination..

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.. a Weekend in Istanbul ..

Author: MYTH.Graphy

06 10th, 2009

Mood: sleepy

Craving: relaxation massage

Gee it’s been a long time since I last logged to my blog. I know it takes me a lot of time to update, yet I always make sure I log at my backend of my blog everyday. This is the longest time since I last was around my website. Feels weird and I really miss it.

The delay is all because of my sudden quick trip to Turkey. I attended the Formula 1 ING Turkish Grand Prix as an observer. It’s amazing; I can’t even describe the experience. The first thought I had in mind was how did I end up exploring this territory? It is completely massive, gorgeous, famous and the bias idea behind it; that it’s Exclusive to MEN field.

I had such a hectic weekend, the last thing I was allowed to think of was to sleep or rest. Everything was so quick and overwhelming. Can’t even believe I was able to absorb all the information I was supposed to absorb in two days.

Its fun, adventures, crowded and vibrant,, makes your head spin like a rollercoaster. The experience is really full of awakening-call incidents, derives huge amount of thrilling experience-development opportunities.

Above all, it was a business trip; I managed to have my personal touches to it. There were those adventures I made for myself and dragged my colleagues to blindly follow our fun run-offs

. As well as those elegant high class gala dinners that made my trip worth the trouble.

After all; I had so much fun I so wished it never ends and it’s all because of the good companion I had with me. They were amazing and added a special flavor to the whole trip.

I took loads of pics: here is the first badge

enjoy